Top 10 signs youre unhappy at work - The Chief Happiness Officer Blog

Top 10 signs youre unhappy at work - The Chief Happiness Officer Blog How do you know that youre unhappy at work? That something is not right and that its time to either make some changes at work or move on to a new job? In my work, I talk to a lot of people who are not happy with their jobs. Here are the top ten symptoms of unhappiness at work that Ive observed. How many apply to you? 1: You procrastinate You really, honestly try to get some work done. But somehow you never really get around to it. Or you only do it at the last possible moment and then only do a half-baked effort. Many people view procrastination as a personal weakness. To me, its one of the strongest warning signs of unhappiness at work. 2: You spend Sunday night worrying about Monday morning I never sleep on Sunday night very well because I?m worried about going to work on Monday morning. My job is very stressful and you kind of have to gear up for Monday and getting back into that. (source) One of the worst things about being unhappy at work is that the unhappiness bleeds over into your free time. If youve had a lousy day at work, its difficult to go home and have a great evening. If your week sucked, its hard to have a fun, relaxed, carefree weekend. 3: Youre really competitive about salary and titles You dont like the job itself, so you focus much more on salary and perks. Knowing that someone in a similar position is paid more than you, or is promoted when youre not, really eats at you. When were unhappy at work we get a lot more competitive, for one simple reason: When work doesnt give us happiness and enjoyment we want to get something else out of it. And what else is there but compensation and promotions. 4: You dont feel like helping co-workers Your colleagues may be struggling. But you dont really feel like lending a hand. Why should you? One very interesting psychological study started by putting subjects in either a good mood or a bad mood. They were then asked to go down the hall to another room where the experiment would continue. In the hallway the real experiment took place the subjects passed a man holding a big box struggling to open a door. Would the subject help that person? The experiment showed, that when were in a bad mood, were much less likely to help others. 5: Work days feel looooong The first thing you do in the morning, is calculate the number of hours until you can go home. Ironically, this makes the work day feel even longer. 6: You have no friends at work Friends at work? Theyre mostly all jerks anyway. Gallup have found in their studies of workplace engagement, that one of the strongest factors that predict happiness at work is having at least one close friend at work. 7: You dont care. About anything. Things can go well or they can go badly for your workplace. Either way, you dont really give a damn. When youre unhappy, you care mostly about yourself and not so much about the workplace. 8: Small things bug you Small annoyances bug you out of all proportion. Like someone taking up too much space in the parking lot, someone taking the last coffee without brewing a new pot or someone talking too loudly in the next cubicle. When youre unhappy you have much thinner skin and a shorter fuse. It takes a lot less to annoy you. 9: Youre suspicious of other peoples motives No matter what people do, your fist thought is what are they up to? Good or bad, big or small, all decisions and actions made by your co-workers and managers are seen in this light. Studies show that were also more suspicious of others when were unhappy. 10: Physical symptoms You suffer from insomnia, headaches, low energy, muscle tension and/or other physical symptoms. Studies show that when youre unhappy at work youre more prone to experience these physical stress symptoms. Your take How many of these apply to you in your current job? Did I leave any important symptoms of workplace unhappiness out? Please write a comment. Id really like to know your take! Related posts: Never stay in a bad job. Fix it or leave. Find your quitting point How to find a job youll love Thanks for visiting my blog. If you're new here, you should check out this list of my 10 most popular articles. And if you want more great tips and ideas you should check out our newsletter about happiness at work. It's great and it's free :-)Share this:LinkedInFacebookTwitterRedditPinterest Related